How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Like Gary Vee.

I admit it – a couple of years ago I absolutely could not stand Gary Vaynerchuk.   I followed him on Twitter, not because I found him interesting, but because so many of my Friends were following him.  Every day I would log on to twitter and see his face snarling at me.  Why was he so angry all of the time?  How could anybody actually like someone who is always in a bad mood?

Your twitter profile icon says a lot about you in a tiny square.  For me, it has always been a picture of me smiling.  For some it is their business logo, and others it is the meme of the day.  But Gary’s (at the time) was a photo of him snarling and looking mean.  Seriously.

And, like many people, I judged a book by its cover.

When Gary came to Des Moines in 2008, shortly after Chris Pirillo came home for a week (it was a social media bonanza year and the year the great tweetups came upon us all) I scoffed and wanted nothing to do with it.  Gary Vee?  Bah, I’m more infamous on the Internet than Gary Vee.

Yes and no.

True, most people in #dmtweetup and #cib have no idea where I have worked and what I have done, but who’s fault is that?  Mine. I don’t toot my own horn a lot, but this Gary guy sure seemed full of himself.

Fast forward.

I gave Gary a second chance.  I have zero interest in wine – I can buy a $4 of Lindeman’s or Black Swan Merlot and be happy.  But if all my Friends and friends followed him, then maybe I should.  And if his book is that popular within my circle, maybe I should read it.

So I bought Crush It.  And there was Gary – smiling.  Reading the book, I found Gary not to be an obnoxious, self-loving jerk like his avatar led me to believe… but someone who is excited about his business and brand.  Genuinely excited.  An excitement I recognized having myself when I was in my 20′s.  As Obi Wan might say “An excitement  I haven’t felt in a long time.  A long time.” Even though he doesn’t know me from a hole in the ground, I would just like to apologize for dismissing him based on an avatar.

So the point of this blog post is two-fold I guess.  One: Don’t judge a tweeter by their icon.  Two: People DO judge tweeters by their icons – choose yours carefully.

And I guess thirdly – know when to admit you were wrong.